Today finds me grateful for the gift of knowing Jacob and watching as he grew from a child to a young man. I will always remember his mischievous grin and bright blue eyes that danced with laughter and love. Jacob went to be with the Lord at approximately 1:00 a.m. this morning. His body was just too traumatized to survive. I've laughed and cried. My heart is with his family and I'm going to ask those of you who pray to please pray for his family and for his friend, M. Jacob was a very forgiving person and from listening to his family last night, I'm certain that Jacob wouldn't want M to carry the burden of his death. He would want for M to learn something from what happened and move forward with his life.
I now know that Jacob knew Christ as his Savior, so we'll see Jacob again. There is such peace in that knowledge. My SIL, Jacob's step mom for over 15 years said that Jacob's passing was very, very peaceful. They are all heartbroken, but we serve a God that takes situations that leave us asking why and then takes that hurt and turns it into something beautiful.
I wasn't close with Jacob, but I did love him. It was hard not to love Jacob. He just drew others to him with his peaceful spirit and forgiving and loving nature. There were probably 50+ friends of Jacob at the hospital last night. It spoke volumes to me about how loved he really was and I hope that his family can find some comfort in knowing that he is loved by so many.
I know that God will use this situation to bring glory and honor to His name. I really hope that these young adults that loved Jacob will remember Jacob should they ever decide to drink and drive.
Today finds me grateful for the following:
Jacob's life. Thank you Lord for allowing me to know him, even if it was just a little bit.
The joy of watching my ss's becoming responsible young men.
My husband who I love with all my heart.
And most importantly, the gift of life that Jesus offers to all through His death.
I won't say goodbye, Jacob. Instead, I'll say that I will see you again in a little while.
May you all have a wonderful 4Th filled with family and friends. Stay safe and enjoy your holiday!
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6 comments:
I am so sorry for your family's loss. I'm glad you are taking time to find gratitude in light of such a tragic situation. My thoughts and love goes to you and your loved ones.
I am so very sorry for your loss. How many of our children have to die before things change...Why???God rest his soul.
So sad..so senseless.
Thank you for the loving tribute to this young man.
I'm sorry to hear about Jacob. I wish that he had lived to learn that there is a better way of living. Hopefully, he knows that now and is at peace.
What a powerful reminder of the real consequences or alcohol. Sorry for your loss, Heather, and I hope that you keep finding peace in Him.
Eli
Does anybody ever keep track of the kids who are dying? The message of the consequences is not powerful enough. So many, so young. Sorry for your loss.
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